Pop sensation Selena Gomez recently shared insights into her inner circle, emphasizing the importance of surrounding herself with down-to-earth individuals. In an interview with Time, the ‘People You Know’ singer revealed that her closest friends are unfazed by her celebrity status, expressing admiration for their grounded approach.
Navigating Social Dynamics: “Girls Are Mean” Mentality
Reflecting on her experiences in the spotlight, Gomez candidly addressed the challenges of navigating social dynamics, particularly among women. She acknowledged the prevalence of competitiveness and cliques, noting her own feelings of uncertainty within social circles. Despite her fame, Gomez finds solace in the authenticity of her friendships, which include professionals from various industries such as casting, production, and real estate.
The Universal Struggle of Loneliness
However, fame doesn’t shield Gomez from moments of loneliness, a universal struggle she openly acknowledges. Despite her busy schedule and successful career, she admits to grappling with occasional feelings of isolation. Yet, she emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to experience and process such emotions, recognizing the inevitability of occasional heartbreak and solitude.
In a surprising revelation, Gomez shared her long-standing contemplation of motherhood, even during periods of singleness. The ‘My Mind And Me’ artist disclosed her previous thoughts of adoption, expressing a readiness to embrace parenthood by the age of 35, regardless of her relationship status. Reflecting on her journey, Gomez revealed her acceptance of solitude and the personal growth it fostered during her years of being single.
Newfound Companionship with Benny Blanco
Gomez’s relationship with producer Benny Blanco, which began in 2023, has provided her with newfound companionship and support. Despite her past struggles with loneliness, Gomez’s current partnership with Blanco reflects her evolving perspective on relationships and personal fulfillment.